bostonbubble.com Forum Index bostonbubble.com
Boston Bubble - Boston Real Estate Analysis
 
 FAQFAQ   SearchSearch   MemberlistMemberlist   UsergroupsUsergroups   RegisterRegister 
 ProfileProfile   Log in to check your private messagesLog in to check your private messages   Log inLog in 

SPONSORED LINKS

Advertise on Boston Bubble
Buyer brokers and motivated
sellers, reach potential buyers.
www.bostonbubble.com

YOUR AD HERE

 
Go to: Boston real estate bubble fact list with references
More Boston Bubble News...
DISCLAIMER: The information provided on this website and in the associated forums comes with ABSOLUTELY NO WARRANTY, expressed or implied. You assume all risk for your own use of the information provided as the accuracy of the information is in no way guaranteed. As always, cross check information that you would deem useful against multiple, reliable, independent resources. The opinions expressed belong to the individual authors and not necessarily to other parties.

Hurray! Home Sales at Lowest Level in More than a Decade!
Goto page Previous  1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8
 
Post new topic   Reply to topic    bostonbubble.com Forum Index -> Greater Boston Real Estate & Beyond
View previous topic :: View next topic  
Author Message
john p



Joined: 10 Mar 2006
Posts: 1820

PostPosted: Wed Sep 08, 2010 2:20 pm GMT    Post subject: Reply with quote

I guess is see it as what institution actually teaches being kind and fair to your neighbor? Kids go to school and learn how to read and write and do math but the teachers aren't formally imparting morality. Younger people enjoy a society that is built on social norms and values that have been cultivated by Religion in the past.

As far as the "selfish" part goes, Religions teach you that you aren't the center of the universe and you have a role and responsiblity in the community, in your family and you have to make decisions accordingly. Now, it can get a bit over the top when they expect a husband and wife who hate eachother to stay together because their responsiblity as parents trumps their own personal desire for happiness. It does, however make people a bit more thick skinned and more tolerant because it focuses the attention on the family as opposed to the individual and sometimes that can help weather a passing storm. If the structure is bad, there isn't much you can do, but the values within a Religion often try to help preserve the family unit, which is an important building block in society. The cultures with the most problems typically do not have fathers that stay and raise their children and go off and father more children with different women. I think that the eggheads who trash Religion are hurting the poor within the urban areas.

This is just my personal view, but I think Christ understood that the path that he asked us to walk was a bit harder at times because people will laugh at you and seeing others who cut corners and get ahead will be frustrating and playing by the rules often is harder and causes more anxiety, but by going to Church, you see others in your community seeking the same connectivity and you hear these messages that address the types of anxiety and frustration and fear that happens when you try to be a nice person in a world that is sometimes a bit selfish. I guess academics look to literature like Don Quixote to see how a man of honor gets ridiculed when he lives in a cess pool. I think that people still go to Church because Christ's teachings are often so simple that they can endure and penetrate time and the cloud of corruption that can surround even a Church. Because the Church congregates a lot of people, it becomes a target for recruitment for some pretty bad stuff by some pretty bad people, and sometimes the Church makes bad decisions when individuals do evil things and they decide not to expose them because they are trying to make sure that they can maintain their capacity to do the real charity that makes the most difference. What they failed to realize was that by not addressing this evil stuff, they reduced their capacity to do good because people said, I don't want to be a member of a Church that tolerates that kind of evil stuff. And these people are right. I'm just saying that our current built environment in this particular time has this going on and unless people have faith that Jesus Christ would not have condoned this and that his message can still come through, they might not get the nourishment of his teachings and fall deeper into anxiety and frustration because it is kind of hard to try to be a decent person in a capitalistic society. Jesus Christ stood up and defended a prostitute who was going to be stoned and said "He is who without sin cast the first stone". I mean at the time, this was a real act of courage because he was interfering with the law and he stood up to corruption and what an act of tolerance and when he was killed that was quite an act of sacrifice and civil disobedience. In our society, the academics have made Jesus Christ as a historical figure almost off limits because it was very, very sensitive subject matter. I'm asking the same question as you Kadrian, Christ would not have wanted people to kill others in his name, but if people don't listen to his message, those that do claim to know his message will be sometimes these corrupt people who do it for self interest. I think the academics abandonment of Christ as subject matter doesn't make any sense because he has influenced a great deal of the population throughout history. When the Church became corrupt and murdered people, obviosly, the Holy Spirt became an orphan to it and in these times challenging the Church was the right thing to do. I'm just saying that people should be open to the possiblity that the Church can heal itself from within and purge out the evil, but some can't get past what it did several hundreds of years ago. I think that Massachusetts Catholics have a certain blend of justice and faith that was necessary to be the first to expose and drive resolution in a widespread criminal matter. At this point, I can't argue with people that find this so atrocious to not respect the Church, I'm just saying that Christ's teachings help foster a kind society and that is not an awful thing. I mean right now many people are getting absolutely skull fucked at work and are taking on some serious anxiety and it is hard for me to see them getting preyed upon as slaves when the message of Christ can help them endure and find peace. Sorry for the blather....

In our current built environment, from my perspective, you see urban areas which value tolerance and openness and more rural areas that promote more traditional community values. I'm not saying that people who believe in God aren't moral people; I do think they have a lot of morals that have been passed down to them through their ancestors that were formed by Religion and that they enjoy a society where they enjoy the benefits of people who are taught through Religion to be kind and respectful. I'm just saying that long term, the attacks on Religion may have negative consequences and right now a lot of young buyers are sorting through these decisions because the urban areas and rural areas have become a bit polar due to politics. I mean you just have to look at the Red and Blue County Map to clearly see that the Urban Areas are voting Democrat and the Rural Areas are voting Republican. Now when you consider that we are in a political chapter where politicians are rallying their base versus trying to win over those that have a predisposition to vote against them, over time these two environments become polarized. You see rural people trashing the corruption in the City and City people talking about rural people like toothless hayseeds. It is all interwoven with the highly sensitized nerve endings of politics, which just makes this subject so enjoyable..... but nonetheless a reality.

This back and forth creates resonance, here is what that looks like in nature:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j-zczJXSxnw

This nutcase in Florida who wants to burn the Muslim Holy book is creating the worst kind of shock waves back and forth and we need moderates to be able to dissipate these awful negative shocks.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
mpr



Joined: 06 Jun 2009
Posts: 344

PostPosted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 1:24 am GMT    Post subject: Reply with quote

john p wrote:
I think that people still go to Church because Christ's teachings are often so simple that they can endure and penetrate time and the cloud of corruption that can surround even a Church.


Don't you think that the very structure of the Catholic Church, being
so heirarchial and therefore so focused on the accumulation of wealth and
power violates these teachings ? Do you really think that Jesus would have
approved of such an organization ? For me its not just that there were
serious crimes hundreds of years ago. There are the more recent issues
with child abuse, and opposing birth control in the developing world
which causes real human suffering for the sake of theology.

There's also the issue of contrition (which should be a familiar concept
for Catholics !). If they said "we recognize that the quest for wealth
and power has lead to many criminal abuses throughout history.
We're going to reform by selling off the riches of the Church and using
them for charity. From now on the Pope will live in a modest house in Rome
rather than in a palace" that would be one thing. But the Pope giving a
speech apologizing for past abuses just doesn't cut it.

In a similar vein do you really think the anger displayed by the Tea Party
types - or by yourself in some of your posts = is compatible with Christian theology ? You spend a lot of time ragging on people who tried to promote home ownership in poor neighborhoods. Where is the sympathy and compassion there ?

Its one of the remarkable aspects of US politics that those who wear
their Christianity most openly on their sleeve also seem the most hostile
to issues of social justice.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Kaidran



Joined: 17 Mar 2010
Posts: 289

PostPosted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 2:21 am GMT    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
The cultures with the most problems typically do not have fathers that stay and raise their children and go off and father more children with different women. I think that the eggheads who trash Religion are hurting the poor within the urban areas.


Well obviously nothing creates a loving family unit better than mandating people stay together. The underlying subtext of this is that people in poor urban areas are too stupid to think for themselves. I just find it very funny how people dislike being told what to do, unless they are doing the telling. Also how liberals telling people what to do are "elites" while conservatives are moral guardians.

Since I was raised in England I had religion in school, prayers and all. I know a lot of the Jesus stories and I think they have very strong and valuable message. In terms of how many people actually live by them I don't believe a congregation is any more or less likely to treat their fellow man better than any other random breakdown of the population. I think members of a congregation are more likely to be nice to another member of the congregation but that is more due to being in the same "gang".

The urban/rural Dem/Repub liberal/conservative divide is a huge problem. I dont know what the answer is but I know it will never be reached with the same overly simplistic black/white view of everything.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
john p



Joined: 10 Mar 2006
Posts: 1820

PostPosted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 2:47 pm GMT    Post subject: Reply with quote

http://www.gallup.com/poll/141044/Americans-Church-Attendance-Inches-2010.aspx

In this gallop article, if you scroll about 2/5ths down you can see the frequent Church Attendance, January - May 2010 by demographic group.

The top of the List has "Conservative" at 55%

The bottom of the List has "Liberal" at 27%

Although this article shows only a very small tick upward in Church attendance during the Recession, it takes the position that there is no correlation between a poor economy and church attendance.

I disagree very slightly because it appeared that there was a downward trend prior to the Recession so to overcome this downward trend and hit an inflection point requires an arresting force or refusal in hitting a new strata.

Regardless, the comment Obama made about "Some people cling to guns and religion" was kind of closed minded and cynical. Many today are clinging to Religion and are finding safe harbor in the Holy Spirit.

Kadrian, I agree with you about mandating unhappy couples to stay together isn't the right medicine in many cases. Again, for something of the scale of the Church, their policy tends to address practicality with the focus on the aggregate and they ignore legitmate cases and even criminal behavior with the child abuse scandal. I'm not going to argue over this because I agree with you. What I am saying though, is that when people become self centered they become selfish. Sometimes by just paying attention to the needs of others we become less obsessed on ourselves and our own problems and it helps us gain perspective and balance. During these tough times, people are trying to find coping mechanisms and many are realizing that the rat race isn't worth it and they are almost forced to shed the obsession on themselves and they are finding peace in family, friends, community, etc.

In this article:

The Real Root Causes of Violent Crime: The Breakdown of Marriage, Family, and CommunityPublished on March 17, 1995 by Patrick Fagan, Ph.D.


http://www.heritage.org/Research/Reports/1995/03/BG1026nbsp-The-Real-Root-Causes-of-Violent-Crime

from above:

Quote:
While this link between illegitimacy and chronic welfare dependency now is better understood, policymakers also need to appreciate another strong and disturbing pattern evident in scholarly studies: the link between illegitimacy and violent crime and between the lack of parental attachment and violent crime. Without an understanding of the root causes of criminal behavior -- how criminals are formed -- Members of Congress and state legislators cannot understand why whole sectors of society, particularly in urban areas, are being torn apart by crime. And without that knowledge, sound policymaking is impossible.

A review of the empirical evidence in the professional literature of the social sciences gives policymakers an insight into the root causes of crime. Consider, for instance:

Over the past thirty years, the rise in violent crime parallels the rise in families abandoned by fathers.
High-crime neighborhoods are characterized by high concentrations of families abandoned by fathers.
State-by-state analysis by Heritage scholars indicates that a 10 percent increase in the percentage of children living in single-parent homes leads typically to a 17 percent increase in juvenile crime.
The rate of violent teenage crime corresponds with the number of families abandoned by fathers.
The type of aggression and hostility demonstrated by a future criminal often is foreshadowed in unusual aggressiveness as early as age five or six.
The future criminal tends to be an individual rejected by other children as early as the first grade who goes on to form his own group of friends, often the future delinquent gang.
On the other hand:

Neighborhoods with a high degree of religious practice are not high-crime neighborhoods.
Even in high-crime inner-city neighborhoods, well over 90 percent of children from safe, stable homes do not become delinquents. By contrast only 10 percent of children from unsafe, unstable homes in these neighborhoods avoid crime.
Criminals capable of sustaining marriage gradually move away from a life of crime after they get married.
The mother's strong affectionate attachment to her child is the child's best buffer against a life of crime.
The father's authority and involvement in raising his children are also a great buffer against a life of crime.


Kadrian: I guess being in the design and construction industry, I see things in these ways. I see values as building material and organizations of values as construction methods to form larger composite building blocks or families and neighborhoods and societies.

I think your criticism of me was in the strike zone when you said:

Quote:
I just find it very funny how people dislike being told what to do, unless they are doing the telling. Also how liberals telling people what to do are "elites" while conservatives are moral guardians.


That is a point well taken. Honestly, I was in a long term relationship with someone that looked perfect on paper, but we didn't get married. I come from a large extended family where there isn't almost any divorce. What was so valuable for me was that although each couple had their own individual marriage which was unique, they all had this glow about them and a very caring and effective way of communicating. My parents bickered like the Honeymooners but they believed that they never held any negative feelings and kept everything on the surface so what you saw was what you got. I was not into the bickering and wanted a more even keeled deal, and it was really my little brother and his wife that kind of showed me that this was possible and their way of filtering and communicating was a manner I was more interested in; so I guess I saw that as a possibility and it helped me be open to find my wife. In my early days of dating, I guess I fell into the impressions of my parents and I would act out what I saw. I remember while arguing with a girl, putting my fist through a windshield while driving when I was like 19 or so (obviously, this approach wasn't going to work out....). Being able to live in a family where you could see successful marriages was very valuable to me because on paper, I should have married that other woman. What frustrates me is when I see gay couples with the same glow and pure love for eachother and how the Church can't recognize and accept this.

That song Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me.... To Christians, this "Grace" is often times what they call the "Holy Spirit". In Catholic Marriages we belive that God is part of our marriage and when we get overcome with anger or other negative feelings we ask the Holy Spirit to be present so we try to conduct ourselves and communicate with the presence of Grace or the Holy Spirit. Like in the story "Footprints in the Sand", we ask God to be present and help us take command of the wretch within us so that we can find the best in ourselves and in doing so, find the best in others; I mean that is Grace or the Holy Spirit, when you conduct yourself in a way where others see you reaching inward to be the best you can be and it inspires them to do the same.

As far as the "Moral Guardians" comment, I guess if more people behaved with Grace and inspired by what they believe to be the Holy Spirit, they wouldn't have to do a hard sell on anyone which to most is off putting.

I'm going to give you guys a break from this. Take care.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Display posts from previous:   
Post new topic   Reply to topic    bostonbubble.com Forum Index -> Greater Boston Real Estate & Beyond All times are GMT
Goto page Previous  1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8
Page 8 of 8

 
Jump to:  
You can post new topics in this forum
You can reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum


Forum posts are owned by the original posters.
Forum boards are Copyright 2005 - present, bostonbubble.com.
Privacy policy in effect.
Powered by phpBB © 2001, 2005 phpBB Group